Everyone is born with an innate Love for ourself, self-respect, self-admiration, honoring self-esteem, self-confidence, and respect for oneself which are our primal faculties, this in turn reflects in our nature, mannerism and character. We are gifted with a life as human beings because in our previous life we had led a good life and that good Karma has given a beautiful life we deserve.
Many of us, in this flow of life that we live with- do not recognize this blessed Karma that we richly deserve. The hour has come to embrace this gift as “Being Human”.
Self-love flows from the time we realize and believe that “I am good enough”, and this is only possible from the moment we stop depending on what people say about us. The moment we realize we cannot please anyone; we start acknowledging our feelings and our own opinions.
Sometimes “Maya” the illusion of the world around us keep us so busy that we are engrossed in the Maya of this earth school, so much that we lose out on being authentic, being raw, being non-judgmental and being the way we are.
In my journey of being a Spiritual Life coach, I came across many people living in the illusion of the phenomenal world and looking forward to either: fit themselves with others-feeling insignificant when being compared to others- trying to please others- trying to overdo others in a materialistic way- being in grief but not ready to come out- being depressed but not ready to work on it- being puzzled-being confused- being frustrated- being absent although physically present—this results in them not being able to still accept themselves and love themselves, because they are wrapped with maya.
I often ponder that if humans persist to be gripped by maya,without coming to the realization of accepting themselves and loving and embracing their life fruitfully. Then, what will happen to mankind? Quite obviously they will lose their power. The power of knowing oneself, aware of self-love and the significance of accepting themselves.
Just imagine a situation where we all are collectively living the life like a robot or even a zombie. Superficially, we thoughtlessly and obediently follow instructions, routines, chaos, temptations or even self-destruction! The outcome of this will be that we will make this earth a heavy place and collectively lower the vibration of earth.
The highest frequency is being in LOVE…and the first step towards it is “LOVING YOURSELF”. Once we tap in this frequency, we immediately rise our vibrations and energy.
It is impossible to bring any changes in the life of anyone around us if we do not know how to bring changes within us. Remember, what goes round comes around, when you change the world inside us, it automatically gets reflected in our outside world.
We must ALIGN WITH THE DIVINE WITHIN!
Getting back the lost power, the lost believe in oneself and standing up for oneself is our first step. We cannot pour from the empty cup, only if our cup of love is filled, we can pour our love to others.
Sometimes we have to please many people all the time, which blinds us to constantly fix ourselves as per the need of others, but the question remains is, if we need to fix ourselves to fit the bill of others then we are living for other sand losing our self-identity.
In fact, how can someone be a significant person in our life, who cannot accept the way we are?
The best relationship with anyone outside us can only be fulfilling when we are at peace within ourselves, however, we can only have peace within us, when we love who we are and when we are ready to accept every fragment of our being, the whole of us including the light and shadow side of us.
At Divinedebs we will assist you to believe and accept yourself. We motivate you to bring back the faith you lost on yourself, gain the powers you long lost, help to accept the yin and yang part of you and thereby LOVE YOURSELF!